Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. I say, Follow your heart.
I am married to a doctor for one year now. I am trying so hard to be understanding but the time when I could discuss my fears with him are well and truly gone. Hi, like others I've read a lot of the posts but still have a few questions. Someone already said it, but unless you are planning on converting, this is a dead end relationship. And after dating a few months we both knew we wanted to get married. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is.
It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc. What goes on in those sacred temples. The relationship never went anywhere but was always happy to help and he was very grateful. The scriptures say that one of the main reasons good people don't join the church is because they just haven't been introduced to it. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. What's hard for us, is he doesn't understand why I gladly accept extra hours and work and community service projects, which sometimes impinge on the little time we do have to spend together. I just pray daily that no matter what we end up doing we are 30 min or less away from each other. That's what love is, right. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me.
I say to you, decisions determine destiny. Who hit on them or the other way round. But daytime game is the key.