And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. I will keep you posted and thanks again for your thoughtful response I really appreciate it. Well guess wat my engagement got cancelled. About ten years ago, I realized I needed to quit qualifying my excellent husband who is a better man than many Mormon men I knowI realized I needed to raise my kids to think of him as completely equal to the men they knew at church. I've been holding out, mostly contentedly, for a time when we could appreciate each other as unique individuals. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead.
She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. Since I interpreted remotely via video, I got most of the routine cases: I can interpret those kinds of check ups in my sleep. Who hit on them or the other way round. The woman I have feelings for is conflicted on her religion in regards to me. When mormon married a mormon and failed miserably. These are things your wife may consider matter-of-fact and you may be surprised by if you don't discuss them now. It won't be easy with the lower salary but it will be better than the alternative.
I excused canceling plans, seeing each other only once a week, not being able to text much, etc. Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other. He'll pitch in when he can, but that isn't too often. Children thrive on clarity and consistency. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. Though being with a resident is hard, it can be totally worth it if you're committed to the person and you know that they are committed to you - you just have to realize that commitment will look different coming from them.
Maybe more convinced than you are. I also write erotic shorts which I hope help women heal from bad relationship and envision what they really want and create it. I was to late in that.