Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. You are commenting using your Twitter account. Someday she may really regret everything, and miss you like crazy. Its fascinating that in so many women are defining themselves by their MD husbands like we are in s season from Mad Men. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church:.
He puts no effort forth toward our marriage - he has no time or energy to do so. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. But I can't figure out whether or not we will ever get to that stage with the current situation and I'm scared of wasting my time waiting for things to get better. She will be oh-so-grateful if you do not pressure her to discard those values. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. Thanks so much for the links. I adore the show New Normal and one of my favorite episodes is when Bryan decides to go back to church and the Father is so cool with him. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience.
She is going to dump you. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful. It broke my shelf, we left as an entire family, and our marriage is better than ever.
I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. Lok for certain things: Spend some time with a few and you will know what to look for. Then you complain when the polish of being married to a doctor wears off and you grow callused to the money and big house. You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself. I also think that if marriage outside the covenant is a sin, it is not so grave as to be unforgivable. I feel you on the loneliness. Like many Docotors wives, Our husbands have a demanding career.