I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. If your relationship is moving forward, or she suggests doing something more expensive, it is not inappropriate for her to help pay as well. This insecurity is at the root of the princess syndrome.
Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. Not the end of the world. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens. They seriously have movies about it. There are other rewards, like him being available during the week or on odd days when other dads aren't, and knowing that we don't have to struggle financially as many of our friends do in this tough economy. But I am very lonely indeed, I have married to a doctor for 5 years, he has been struggling with his career change for years with achieving different fellowships and residency in different countries. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward. Would I have changed the course of my life. It really can be that simple.
I look forward to reading more. No beliefs are protected from challenge, the rules of evidence, or derision. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief. Ultimately we broke up. If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry.
All you care about is the paycheck. Ladies take a stance. All people see is the money and that's it.