While I admire his dedication, his focus and intelligence, it has been extremely hard on me. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church. Maybe that is why I am grouchy and can't cheer when my husband becomes a director for yet another board at the hospital.
Find someone who isn't part of a cult. Thought the girl and I had a future, and we did, just not with each other I'll bet there are hundreds of boyfriend converts out there. In her mind if you never accept the gospel you are denying her eternal exaltation as a God. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. And we are not bloody married yet. I married for companionship but now all I do is wait for him to stop working, to come home, to call me back, to have time, which is hardly ever. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable.
Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. She is in pretty deep and culture is a powerful force. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. I'm afraid he's going to be more in love with work than me and a family. I would never convert. I know some people don't like the sound of "working for a relationship", but it can be so rewarding. I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. Pray about it and follow your heart.
See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember. Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve. I am married to an ongologist for 16years. Dating a mormon girl.