I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. Stop trying to make up for all the little things you miss with big short-term things. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. MinsPackage speaks the truth. He is always on call, too stressed, too tired etc etc.
Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective. I am scared of passing through all this you guys have passed before i even got to this blog i've thought bout it a lot. Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters. He still writes to me telling me that until his last breath he will love me. Listen to the still small voiceв. Jack is right about the demographics.
I have been married with a doc for 4 years, we have been moving every year due to his fellowship, residency and so on, i have been losing job opportinities and living with no families,friends around due to his career. The ones who already had concerns start questioning. I am 27, LDS, and 5 days away from marrying my own amazing non-Mormon man. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism.
Aww God bless all u patient strong wives. After my divorce I dated Mormon men в disastrous. Then, do any of the above morsels of advice matter. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. Most of the time, your boyfriend will be on call or at the hospital whenever you make plans with your friends or family. The independent work is just as important as the work we do as a couple. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. Top Posts Do Mormons believe people can become gods. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you.