Ask her out on dates. That said, I like to hope that love can be more powerful than belief. Because Utah mormons are waayyy different than mormons everywhere else. I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing.
Communication is at an all time low and stress is at an all time high. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. But we Always had time for each other. I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is.
It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her. By the way I work full time about 60 hours a week with my company and seem to never miss anything for my kid and can do all his bullshit also. All this actually needs is some stamps, pre-printed envelopes, and a few seconds to dash off a note, kiss the paper, and drop it in a mailbox. That would only encourage her to give up other standards that really are serious and to become like the typical Western degenerate. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to. What a miserable state. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate.
Keep in touch, keep it light and understand he is under a lot of pressure right now. After two years of being together with very few problems, it ended within 30 minutes of having "The Talk" about my future religiosity. Marriage to the wrong person is extremely difficult. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. She was masterful at hiding the cuts and bruises with clothing. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit.