Joanna mentioned that our theology is rich with opportunities for second chances. It's definitely not an easy life. What goes on in those sacred temples. You can't provide that for her so your marriage will be defective from the outset. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. You are a good person. Of course she won't want to watch something that in her mind attacks her religion. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. I can only say that I was that girl, 10 years ago. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it.
I believe that marriage and kids is not something that can't be handled, I'm sure that once kids arrive somehow both parents will do whatever it takes to be there for the kids, however I'm also sure that you will be the one most likely to carry the weight a bit more and of course feel it too. So how do we approach saving a relationship with someone who has unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship looks like. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies. The essay on race and the priesthood claims that Brigham Young prophesied that blacks would receive the priesthood someday, but if you actually follow the link in the footnotes you will see that he was misquoted.
I still assume at times that my husband will recognize that I love him if I do his laundry and keep the house clean and care well for our children, etc. Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths. It's just that on days I'm working, I can't do that. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. With localized medical news and in-language editions. That is a reality you can't change.
If someone isn't dying then it is unlikely to be important. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. I've read some of the articles linked to by mormonessays. My dear faithful LDS aunt married a good non-member man. We always went every Sunday, had family prayer and scripture reading, etc.