If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. Ask Mormon Girl is the blog of author Joanna Brooks. Just going to jump in and then jump out I remember how idealistic I was back then, but here's reality: You will be without him most of the time. Long story short, everyone is dead on. We still joke about the latter. While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule.
Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will talk to you about it when you spend time with them. Do not expect anything long term. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried.
I feel like now more than ever, I am expected to just not have an opinion about anything or even a say in how we spend our time together. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior. I am a lawyer married to a surgical oncologist. If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc. I'm not going to hit the town with single ladies and couples find it awkward just inviting you over. Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. I visit him every month, we managed to go on weekend trips when he's off and he's spend all his vacay time with me and his family. I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband. But there are a lot of women who post here who have flipped from TBM to apostate.
Having married over the course of my life not one but two wonderful non-Mormon men one Jewish and one low-church ProtestantI can say that my own spirituality has been profoundly deepened and enriched by the perspective that these two God-fearing and spiritually mature people offered me, and by my participation in the observances of their traditions. But, you will probably lose. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. So there's THAT to look forward to.