If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person. My wife and her family are a good example of this. Of course she won't want to watch something that in her mind attacks her religion.
I can't emphasize this strongly enough. Thanks for sharing your story. As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. But I'm still going to show up, even if it means I lose an hour or two of sleep. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. I am a 47 yr old Mom of a 4 yr old child with special needs who is completely alone to care for my child a good part of the time. Let's talk about kids. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS.
My husband did his residency in family medicine before work hour restrictions and pulled hour work weeks just like the surgeons. Girls aren't socially required to be missionaries, unlike men. Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. Some of my family approves of my marriage and some does not. In the interfaith marriages that work where one is LDS and the other is not religious, it only works out when the LDS partner is not fully a believer anymore. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. Would I like to have him by my side.
Of course it is impossible Anyways, I am sorry to go on and on. He stated he is in his 30's and established, and incapable of changing…. Should I consider giving up my PhD plans, take up whatever job I can based on my commitments or I should look for somebody with whom my profession is more compatible.