You have to make the decision as to what you want your home and your children to have in that home. Marriage is simply not an option to me there. But he told me that he needs a wife who could take care of him, kids and house.
Other guys I've dated in a similar situation have just asked me to put the keys in the mailbox when I leave though. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. I hope that you have left him at this point, and that you are happy. A shitty sex life, potentially. If you can put yourself in his shoes, you would understand that, first of all, he is barraged by hungry patients all wanting answers and a piece of him. He studies all day and night I live in my own world and my own circle. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him.
It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. I think nothing really prepared either of us for fellowship though. Hopefully they have some say in it, but I'm speaking about other churchgoers' expectations here, and probably your wife's. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access. Aw, glad I can help. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. You love a medical guy. Anytime he is with me and "our" son he is on call, distracted or "needs" time to watch football and golf. On top of their day job, they also have to read volumes upon volumes of medical journals to keep up with their profession.
I am afraid of what these years ahead could mean to our family; make it or break it. I expected long hours and lots of call, which there are. But it is luck of the draw. Would she be okay with having a home that is split religiously. While I do get to accompany him to various dinners and parties, we hardly ever have time together just us, and when we do, he just wants to relax over dinner and decompress. I say to you, decisions determine destiny. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. Females are not expected to serve and MOST of the girls that do, only do so because they do not have a suitable read: If your GF is an attractive girl and still ended up on a mission then she is about as fanatical as they come and if she isn't already she will be slowly trying to convert you. The complete week I stay alone and feel lonely without a call or a message and even sometimes without a reply.