I think you need to sit down and have a conversation with him about all of this, because that's truly the only way to get to the bottom of it and make a decision for yourself. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not. No I dont think so. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. We have to show them we care.
She said we couldn't watch it because the lady who produced the doc was formerly a professor at BYU but has since left the church, so she wouldn't have anything good to say. I so agree with all these points about surviving medicine. There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them. I'll keep digging through it, but there's a lot there and I'd like some suggestions to narrow my search. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. Will things get better. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day.
It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. He does not place the marriage above it. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. Typical American girls have the government to make them feel secure. We have been together for just over a year and married for 3 months. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. They're hidden pretty deep on LDS.
But God works in mysterious ways. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs. He's a good man.