Again, reiterating it, don't expect a decade's worth of time with her, but enjoy her good while you two are together. He knows how I feel about spending time together. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. Look for girls in your singles ward. I decided not to answer his calls for some time to think. You've all been so helpful. In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. However, I believe there are rules set, and we receive certain blessings when we obey said rules. I've told her that but maybe she doesn't believe me. Right off the bat, I have to admit that being married and committed to our marriage has been of utmost importance for my husband and I - throughout all of his training.
I dated many LDS guys before him. Mormon women are more likely to date outside of the religion than men, but also very unlikely to convert to a different religion. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost. So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time. I was to late in that. Just know what your getting into. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. She got engaged 3 months later.
I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband. Keep the relationship casual. We have been married a mere 3. Mormons defintely play by a different rule set.
I say to you, decisions determine destiny. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments. Want to add to the discussion. No one knows your situation the way you do. No lie he is so very loving and caring understands me feeling,but I must say loving and dating a doctor is really hard. Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult. I'm surprised you don't seem to know how long his residency will last. I have a fairly business profession, but a lot of other stuff going on most weeknights.