I can no longer spend more than 30 minutes in the sun. It is positively shocking. Good luck to you. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted.
Your post could have been written by me, in August. If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether. I'm encouraged that this blog gives many of you hope. You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face. However, my situation is very different. You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife. This is my own personal opinion. No one should feel excluded from the House of the Lord. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older. I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith.
And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. Mormons are one of the few remaining groups with healthy women. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful. There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person.
These exclusions, dictated by doctrine, hold the potential to create wedges between you, both immediately, and in the long term. I guess if u believe an angel with a sword really did force Joseph Smith to marry those girls. It hasn't been easy for me to create a regular social life that involves me missing a husband. But I ultimately leave it to him most times. Hey, thanks for the info. If so, then step away from the internet and go look him in the eyes and take his hands and start asking him all the questions you asked me.