I had thought after so many years I would find a way to deal with the resentment. I have only been dating my boyfriend for just over 3 months,and he has just started his 3rd year in med school. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. I'm engaged to a med student we met in undergrad 2 years ago and I've watched him go from playful college kid to serious med student. I am an extrovert too, I do feel lonely when my husband is not around on weekends or holidays or when I fall sick. Good luck and my prayers are with you. Thoughtful, Meaningful Content Posts are moderated for content according to the following guidelines hit report on violations: Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. I don't know what to really do to find time to be with him.
Discover the joys of a non-sexual relationship and find sincere ways to show affection without sex. It CAN work, to be frank. My dear faithful LDS aunt married a good non-member man. Pray about it and follow your heart. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. I do nearly all of the parenting fortunately we only have one child -- we both agree that this lifestyle is too demanding for more and find that my husband's crazy hours and the energy drain of the job make me yearn to connect with other wives that relate. He doted on me, and we had long skype conversations for the first few weeks. I'm so sick of waiting around every night and weekend to see if he will have a minute for me.
And faith and trust. Becoming a doctor is hard. At least people of different races are aware of those differences, and are on alert to deal with them. Marriage is hard, period. If you are very much willing to accept and understand all of these, whether you are a Mormon or not, you can expect that it is fun to date a Mormon girl. Am I wrong to hope for this. You join the LDS Church. There are many great and wonderful people in the church, and the real evil about the church is that it harms those great and wonderful people.
Want to add to the discussion. I know that sounds cold but if you train under stress for that many years and become a member of a masochistic not the sexual context fraternity like that of surgical residents, then you more easily shut out anything that might break down those walls. As a man who married a non-Mormon woman, my story has a slightly different view point, but it comes down to essentially the same principles. Learned by me in time and tears. That is a hard truth. That said, I like to hope that love can be more powerful than belief. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away.