The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple. My spouse really is the most important and I would be nothing without them. It certainly isn't easy. I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. I am a nurse and have been for 10 years. My fiance and I are both becoming doctors, but he is becoming an Orthopedic surgeon and I am becoming a Psychiatrist.
It is hard work. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about. But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it.
The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult. I never pressure him to spend time with me. My husband is a medical student, so I have a few years until I'm a "doctor's wife.
Her Religion is the single most important thing in her life. In the endвthe very endвGod loves my husband even more than I love him. He sealed my husband and I on our wedding day.