There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. Should one belief system or lack of one take priority and why. If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt.
We are trying to conceive now, and I am contemplating if this was the right path for me. There are a million fish in the sea and it makes no sense to choose one with whom you are not religiously compatible. Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. He's currently working in the ER and waiting to start his residency. So I'm wondering if things will ever change or if this is just one of the drawbacks of dating a doctor. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. As a physician buckling under the stress, my assigned counsellor who is also a church minister told me: So, what do I do with that.
Someday she may really regret everything, and miss you like crazy. Why is it up to the wife or girlfriend to make it work and face being lonely forever. They require a healthy dose of flexibility, nontraditional expectations, and teamwork You aren't always gonna have a Christmas etc I can understand it would be hard to understand the cues you are getting if you have no basis for that lifestyle, but really think it over. I am more compassionate towards people who I would have stigmatized earlier. Also, if you have girls, you must realize that they are second class citizens in the church and the church will reinforce this idea. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them.
All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. And frankly, you feel like such a loser. My religious faith saved my sanity but I still worry.