Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry this girl. In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think. My husband is a doc in the UK so I moved 7, miles for love. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. And the thought of being a 'single mom' if we have kids. Her Religion is the single most important thing in her life.
I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. My dad was in the bishopric for most of my childhood, and I was never the person you describe here. I hope it all works out for you. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. How the Book of Mormon was translated using a sacred rock. Discover the joys of a non-sexual relationship and find sincere ways to show affection without sex. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic.
And you seem like a good person. And you know what. Buy them a bus ticket with a note and an address. A more unfortunate soul needs him right now as much as I need him. At the beginning of the relationship, which is not long ago, he use to carry out conversations, even while working. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. I dated many LDS guys before him. Many men have begun leaving the Church in their early twenties as the mission has become more important.
I keep the positive thought that it will get better. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. Yes you are all correct it's lonely and rewarding at the same time But we can continue to make it work. I am not quite a spouse of a doctor. March 18, Run for the hills. Unfortunately, I can't answer the questions about marrying him etc.