Honestly, the bulk of what I did was pretty routine and uninteresting. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. I think it's very helpful that I wasn't nearly as busy for most of our relationship thus farwe got engaged before I got absurdly busy and so it's not like we weren't extremely close.
MinsPackage speaks the truth. I love how this applies to ALL marriages. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. I wouldn't swap roles with my husband any day, he definitly has it the hardest. I know the majority of them are great, but there are so many who are like vultures and will latch on to any male doctor like he is theirs.
It hurts me the most when my kids ask me why they haven't see daddy in days. Just ridiculous, what do they know. Yes I am married to a doctor also after being married for 5 yrs he decided to become a trama surgeon. I have just found this blog recently that makes me know that I am not alone. It may change your relationship to them forever. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you.
I've been seeing a doctor for two years now. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. Like Suha, I have also been married almost 28 years and have done pretty much everything myself for so, so long.