And no one has the right to judge you for your decision. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. I have always been a very active, outdoor person. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime.
Am I a homewrecker. I am often kind of waiting around until the last minute for him to contact me and let me know when he's free or I have to pursue him, which doesn't make me feel like he's very into me. This was hard for me because my faith is deeply rooted within me. I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. You've all been so helpful. A lot of shared hobbies, interests, life goals. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc. The LDS Church encourages that young women explore their options and meet all different kinds of people. How can I be more supportive.
He was not a prominent man in the church. Put that in perspective before you try to equate your struggle to his. If she says yes. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. Hi, I am so glad to know that I am not alone. My husband not only supports me going to church he encourages it because he knows that it is a part of me and makes me happy.
That deal with polygamy explained. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. Helpful way to learn the facts in a fast and funny format. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise.