It sounds like you have found a good one. And there is NO taking them off to wear a sleeveless shirt, cute sun dress or regular, girl-length shorts in the summer. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband. It is not something that should be taken lightly. So I am getting myself ready. Word to the wise, wait a day or two. Over the years, it would have felt increasingly burdensome to accommodate practices that seemed to me like superstition. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. How the Book of Mormon was translated using a sacred rock. As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it.
As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it. I've started dating this girl a few months ago, but it's only now that it dawned on me how hard it is to date with her crazy work schedule. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband.
Lots of really thorough replies. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. From a guy's perspective, I was dating a doctor who was going through her final exams to become a registered specialist. And there's a story I'm going to look again for too.
She didn't tell anyone because her own lack self worth and shame petrified her to do anything about it. A lot of Mormons think that good people will obviously recognize the truthfulness of the church and quickly join. You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face. Part of me wants to say Yes!!. Or, if I'm at work, even though I'm constantly busy, even if I wasn't, I can't just pull my phone out and call--i'm at work. I'd suggest the essays.