No one knows your situation the way you do. That's all we're really saying. Be fruitful and multiply. The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me. Our communication is mostly via texts, but he keeps me in the loop at work, and I do the same.
She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. There is a lot about Mormonism I am still struggling to understand, but I am reading faith-based memoirs and studying up on Mormonism as well as other religions but the relevance here is on Mormonism. I married for companionship but now all I do is wait for him to stop working, to come home, to call me back, to have time, which is hardly ever. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot.
Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. Sadly, the general consensus of "convert or nope out" sounds like what will end up happening. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset.
Aww God bless all u patient strong wives. It is hard work. He gets worshipped every day at work. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path.