I had tears in my eyes and goosebumps while reading it. I am so happy about 'starting' our life together in a few months, but I feel like I am totally setting myself up for disappointment. Things I have and continue to think about. It is a demanding role being a wife to any man who works and has his own ambitions in the working world. Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. One night he mentioned to me that we could just stay in hotels and travel the world while he did surgeries. I told her that I want to only be friends. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. In response to your comment about being with that creative director think all relationships have problems.
God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. Do you masturbate, ever. Plan on rolling your eyes A LOT at family get torturers together.
And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. I was lucky with my TBM. It is soooo hard. If you both comfortable having different faiths, your relationship can still be rewarding and fulfilling. The woman provides advice and counsel but doesn't preside. My Buddhist husband likes Mormons and even going to church. You will be surrounded by single women, many of whom are probably interested in dating and marrying a Mormon, so take advantage. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. The point is that he should ASK her if this is true for her.
Imagine if all the men in the world weighed over pounds and acted like slobs. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons. No complaints whatsoever though GF or BF and spouses of physicians quickly understand that medicine isn't a profession Many times you will be second. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville. As Joanne mentioned, should you marry interfaith, you will have lots of help from fellow ward members on converting your spouse. They even refrain from tea and coffee. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. I'm blessed that he is well and doing so well in school. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church.