I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. She's too heavily invested in Mormonism for that. I am a non-Mormon woman married to a Mormon manвwhich seems to be a less common scenario in the LDS world. Over the years, it would have felt increasingly burdensome to accommodate practices that seemed to me like superstition. I do know other doctors who have more balance but take a cold hard look at what your life will be like if your man is married to medicine. You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment.
It's a heart-wrenching story. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I. In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut. If you can put yourself in his shoes, you would understand that, first of all, he is barraged by hungry patients all wanting answers and a piece of him. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. I eventually found out that she did not pass the exams and have requested that I don't contact her again. Stages of a Healthy Relationship. M so happy that I found this blog. You join the LDS Church. Look for girls in your singles ward.
Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. I'm beginning to think that it should be a monthly visit no matter what. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious. He is controlled by his pediatric physician wife, trying to help others with their illness, and still is with me. I am thinking about him pretty much all the time. In her mind if you never accept the gospel you are denying her eternal exaltation as a God.
I have known many women who have married non-members and are happy. Read our Exit Stories from Mormonism. Do not put up with bad behavior at any stage of a relationship. And if he meets it's after calling him for the several time. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. I remember being at some random party in university, holding a beer and looking at the throngs of people around me who were drunk and stumbling. If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. Best wishes on your next expedition.