Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. Hi Op, I wouldn't worry about the lack of constant contact too much. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me.
Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. We try to make this place a little better than we found it. Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened. I do get the odd text but now with 3 weeks to his exam, calls are out of the question. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. And a happy ChristmaChannuKwanzaKah to everyone. And he is reading one of my favorite Buddhist-based books, in an effort to understand my beliefs. Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever. With such high standards of perfection, Mormon girls want a man who validates their efforts and confidently provides directionвa man who expects them to be beautiful.
Well, the thing is he knows exactly how I feel and he has offered to give it all up. The important thing is doing it together. He loves me and would do anything to make me happy. We have 5 kids and my eldest wants to become a doctor. What this guy needs is support and understanding Maybe you didn't intend it this way, but it sounds like you're assuming I'm not already giving him the benefit of the doubt, space, support, and understanding. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance.
This post and the comments are an eye opener. You might need more than he can give. It all depends on the girl. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. I entertained without him, but with frequent phone calls, lol. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing. You arent "giving up" anything. I loved him for THAT. Do you know his work hours, break time during work and where does he take break from work. All this said, God is love and fully understands and appreciates your problem.