She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you. Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on. I would love to someday find myself sitting in the pew with you, sharing this amazing journey. He came to be by my side as soon as he could.
For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. I have only been living with him for a month. Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion. I could go on, but this should give you the idea.
I'm on the same page as you. She can only get sealed to him in a Mormon temple. We need to believe fully and then we make choices, not the other way around. You will have to bring her down to reality. Although with the change in times, people may not follow these rules as stringently as before, it is still better to be careful so as to not offend anyone, and you may possibly land up with the love of your life. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear.
My advice would be to date him when he has free time. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. Find things that will make good memories in years to come.