But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. Recently though she has been quite distant, although this may be due to a combination of reasons - such as family sickness and now being on nights. Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky. They are not God. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. The one I met was full of himself, a slob, and really not that great to women. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. I have done it many times and the repercussions are that they treat me very poorly, but th.
Our communication is almost gone to none, he needs a lot a lot of alone time to achieve his career while i am really worried that how much longer i can live like this!!. Do not put up with bad behavior at any stage of a relationship. I think it might be worth trying. I've read some of the articles linked to by mormonessays. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking.
I understand that he us trying to study but I'm doing everything in my power to. And how little some men understand the value of a well-dusted baseboard. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies. She probably has not studied the real truths behind Mormonism and thinks her beliefs are the only way to become a God while living eternally with family in the life hereafter.
So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. But I got to my breaking point, and after not hearing from him AT ALL for seven days at this point we had been dating and sleeping together for months. I just started dating this guy and he is not only in the army, but a doctor. You can always expand these into group dates by inviting other couples along, which may make her more comfortable in the early stages of your relationship. Family or girlfrient or the pet. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church.