Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so. First of all, Mormons are people so there is a spectrum of what they actually believe on a personal level, and what beliefs are most important to them. If this happens, it might click something in her mind that says that what she experienced was pleasurable and she would like to have it again. Even more lonely for myself as I have no one to complain this situation to. Full respect and care. Additionally we have no family nearby for me to rely on for help or just to combat loneliness. God works by small and simple means to bring about His great and eternal purposes.
It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. I'd suggest the essays. And the you've seen the CES letter. When he does, he is often quiet and exhausted. So if you feel like you both are getting serious, then talk to your girlfriend in time and sort this issue out. All I can think about is the fact that his schedule means that I will have to be the one to shoulder all the parenting and household responsibilities. I give input into our activities for dates, and this works out well since we're very compatible and like spending leisure time the same way. I just graduated college and my boyfriend has one more year. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts.
Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. Plan on rolling your eyes A LOT at family get torturers together. You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl. Mormons are very strict about avoiding sex outside of marriage.
If she identifies as a Mormon, then she probably takes her faith seriously, and it means a lot to her. My husband says he will not compromise and that his physical activity is his priority. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right. Of course she won't want to watch something that in her mind attacks her religion. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person.