Is the answer really just communication and uninterrupted alone time. On his days off he sleeps all day long. Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that. We have to show them we care. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it.
Signs of Male Attraction: Reading a Man's Body Language. Especially if they're devote enough to expect you to marry in heaven, huge implications with that one. I am a military doctor's wife, so in addition to the hideous hours, we have deployments. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. As I grew and became confident, I learned how to deal with social awkwardness. We are both extremely busy, and maybe that's why we work, but we try to make the time for our relationship. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made.
She is probably thinking she can convert you if she is with you long enough and is a good enough example. Be specific every time you ask. It will be up to you, her man, to support the positive expectations. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. However, you might be lucky to not have the experience I did. All parent-child relationships do. But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism. Its was written in shorthand so its hard to read. It sounds like you HAVE done your best in the past.
Anybody dating him is going to need to understand that, and that it has to come first. However, "medical families" can work. So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. The sons inevitably went inactive later in life. They are not God. To his defense, when we were great, we were great. To find another job, a more family oriented one, move to another more financially friendly state we are in California and have a fresh start.