We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it. Now, lest you look at this all and say, "sheesh, go to counseling. Oh, yeah, and this girl belongs to a verifiable cult.
If you really like this girl, might want to show her this. Learn from Experienced Professionals. Well guess wat my engagement got cancelled. I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. You are atheist and that's not changing. I can relate to this post. God brought the two of us together, and we are truly in love. Husband has affair with me, after telling me that he and his wife have grown apart, and we were together for five years.
The most damning information is in the footnotes of the essays. I realize I rambled a bit and may not have answered all your questions; feel free to ask anything else you want to know. In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards. And I never found that "good Mormon girl". So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time. But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. Ultimately, it comes down to this. Work on myself, not him. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship.
Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs. I knew going into this it would be difficult, so I've braced myself, but I'd be lying if I didn't say there's a lot of disappointment that comes along with the relationship. It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore. I've moved to be with him for med school, then we moved again for residency and just moved again for fellowship. I just pray daily that no matter what we end up doing we are 30 min or less away from each other. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can.