He was home alone on his one day off while I took off with our kids to visit family states away. The first time, the shrink said, "It is very common for a woman to divorce so their children WILL see their father more. That settles it for me.
What a bozza topic. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. He is dealing with the aftermath of a failed suicide while I spend my time trying to keep busy at home. Because people who have problems with interfaith families must needs shortly become a thing of the past. We are fighting and he has no patience which I understand but its really hard to accept for me because I feel like I need more from him out of the relationship. It's the extra socializing, hanging out with residents, stopping by the hospital to visit his best friend.
Point is, I can push myself to my extreme physical ends and he has barely broken a sweat. Thanks - I searched but couldn't find it. Marriage is meant to be eternal. No nagging, no emotional neediness, etc. Deep down I know he could pass on that stuff, but never the less it seems like a necessary inconvenience to attend these events. I knew this bothered me, but it wasn't until I read this section that it hit much how much it bothered me and how alone I feel.
To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. About eight years ago, I dated a Radiology resident and I vaguely remember it being intense, but this rises to a whole new level. I also have an MPH degree, and am currently working and trying to support us while he's in school. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. We will see what life has in stock for me and this brilliant cardiologist. A good place to go is to a museum, hiking, or to a park. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. Why Mormons are not racist.