As someone starting residency next year and whose father and brother went through it, and whose girlfriend is about to start it I have to say that you can't be mad at him for not sacrificing something to spend time with you - there is literally nothing else to sacrifice; residency is called residency because the doctors used to live in the hospitals, and it was akin to monks in monastery. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you. Submit a new link. Her goal is to make you mormon. Even though we live together, we barely see each other - when he is working nights, we go several days without seeing each other at all he is usually still at work when I head out in the morning, and gone by the time I get back in the evenings.
I only hate one thing in the planet, and that's the Mormon church. I feel he thinks we cannot be two masters in this boat and if I am this ambituous we may never have time to have and be a family. That is why there are home teachers, friends, family members, neighborsвto provide priesthood blessings. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are.
I married outside the church and have no regrets. Nor was there a lack of compassion or respect. Try to have a date night once a week and when your Dr Spouse has time off go somewhere. You;ll get the answer you needвprayers and blessings for you both. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. You will raise the kids by yourself, and he won't help even when he's home because he'll be too tired or feel too entitled to HIS time alone. Have you created your Facebook Club yet.
I don't think we could have a real conversation about those points either. I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time.