If you have dated a doctor or other abnormally busy person or are in the medical profession yourself that would be particularly helpful, but I'll gladly take any words of wisdom. For me, one of those bouncers is my marriage to the most wonderful woman alive. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. When my daughter needs challenged in soccer, I took her everywhere, I studied vocabulary list with them, wrote essay with them, math facts…….
I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this. He puts no effort forth toward our marriage - he has no time or energy to do so. He had no idea what he was getting himself into. Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters.
I've luckily broken down my GF's defenses about the church a little bit. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards. I truly believe that if a man cheats he was always inclined to do so. What would your relationship look like if you were to marry. For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that. I think that if these two really care about each other that she should be told to take a moment and ask herself how she would feel if they break up over this and years later she finally researches her religion. I'm trying to figure out what I'm getting into in the coming years if I stick around. I'm dating a Mormon girl right now but we both understand that it is most likely isn't going to last long. I love him dearly with all of my heart. But the reason I don't know him well enough is because we don't spend enough time together, or I feel like he's not really "letting me in" to get close to him.
Being married to a doctor is a difficult thing to balance. It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. They're hidden pretty deep on LDS. These garments will not be fun for dating, if you know what I mean. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. The church is very important to her.