They even refrain from tea and coffee. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. Thanks for letting us know. In our church, women are treated with more respect, and are considered to have a literal free ticket to heaven, simply bu because their female. The church essays that address that linked at www. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years. Personally, I like to have my own identity and not be defined by my attachment to Dr. She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself.
I am someone who loves quality time a lot. He says that I should be happy that he is giving me all the comforts of life. She started crying when I explained this to her. Each time, I start to make friends and have to leave them and move. It certainly isn't easy. Look, as a shelia, its no different from a bloke. We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone. Observe the suttle loony behavior of the family during thanksgiving. This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully. But is it the path that will make you the happiest.
Their thinking is something like this. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. I do not contact my gf every day unless they are online. I'd rather marry a rich doctor and let him have his affair s on the side just so long as I don't have to work anymore. She views patriarchy as a quality of God. Yes, it is bad. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person.
If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. Accept yourself, and feel God accepting you, and everything else will follow.