You are looking for evidence that a. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. I get it - he's dedicated years of his life to his craft and he has one chance to roll the dice. So now I am here and I have made a go of it for a year, found a new job, made new friends, tried to grow to like a culture that is foreign to me. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. I would find it therapeutic to type out all of my feelings and at the same time he would get an update.
You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church:. Joanna has written a good answer here. If you have tended to straddle the line between light and dark in the past, or have been a partier, expect to make some changes for this relationship, and expect certain things from your new crush. I forgot to add, that if you marry and alow your children to be raised as Mormon, chances are you wont be able to be at their wedding because it will be in the temple.
The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage. I could draw some flip-art of a kiss on some post-it notes and send one a day. As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months.
Ive realized for the most part they are just too proudful and do not treat women very get. Just go ahead and ask for the definitions and treat it like learning a new language. We long to have a connection that you don't have time for. She will be oh-so-grateful if you do not pressure her to discard those values. I'm not going to live my life in regret I know it sounds terrible but you gotta do what you gotta do. Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable. While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. Thank you so much for posting your thoughts.