Because she already lives the covenants in most of the meaningful ways. Now to answer you question more directly, I believe you should discuss your fears with him so he understands exactly where you want your relationship to go for both of you, otherwise you might grow resentful of him and he may have no clue as to why. I can second this, as a lifelong utahn this is why I simply have a "no mormons" policy for dating. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. That's all we're really saying. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all. In many ways, she was everything that I ever wanted in a spouse, but in other ways she was not what I ever expected. Mark an envelope to be opened at different times throughout the day. The Mormon culture has mastered the forked tongue. It's just not worth it to constantly be stressing over this and feeling dissatisfied with the way things are after we've been dating for this long.
If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. In her mind if you never accept the gospel you are denying her eternal exaltation as a God. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved.
Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. I constantly have to reprioritize my kid, work, other activities. Funny Nicknames for Guys. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it. I feel I am not appreciated and valued as a wife. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff.
She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday. Marriage does weird things to Mormons You're correct, that he should ask her these things would you marry a non Mormon. Women do not get to hold the priesthood and function in an equal role with men. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity.