That's just too high a price to pay. Though my mother never openly complained about this, I could see it in her eyes. But I love him so much. I am thinking about him pretty much all the time. She was a mormon and he finally joined the church at For 40 years there was a disconnect and she really viewed him as a lesser person cause he wasn't a member. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist.
Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful. Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. Its the days when I don't get a text that I worry I feel terrible now for ever doubting him. I do get a little frustrated when I make dinner but he's just too tired to eat with me after working. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about.
No one knows your situation the way you do. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. One small thing to add here. I love him more than anyone else I've been with - but it takes a strong, patient woman willing to sacrifice a lot, to date a doctor. Thanks for these thoughts. She is going to dump you. They were taught that bold sincerity of purpose and a charitable attitude is what makes a man. I'm really glad to hear a few of you have stories of happy interfaith relationships, or leaving the church together, so there's always a chance. Listen, you are in a bad situation and it just has not come to a head yet.
Nothing less will do. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. I still find it an endearing quality in my spouse, though I miss him sorely. I don't think you "dodged a bullet" but I do think new residents change Other wives told me my husband would "come back" but we are still in the training so I can't tell you whether that is completely true or not. She converts to your religion. We had a long distant relationship for 3 years. Medical school and residency is really intense, and I think it's pretty common for doctors to get married a little later in life than the average couple. I feel you on the loneliness.