The important thing is that you are getting to know one another, not that you are always doing fancy things. A lot of shared hobbies, interests, life goals. I understand in some measure of the pressure on the provider, but this profession was their choice. Or, if I'm at work, even though I'm constantly busy, even if I wasn't, I can't just pull my phone out and call--i'm at work. So marrying a doctor might be ideal for me. Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians. It does kick your butt!.
Most of the doctors I know are either way older and in private practices where they can set their schedules a bit OR they're my age and still going crazy with residency hours. I told her that is noble but she would be selfish to marry and work 80 hour work weeks yet if she does marry I can not see any man who would selflessly give over decades for the sake of his wife's career. In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut. You just don't want the kids to realize how much you resent him. Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. I expected to find this sisterhood of wives that would comfort, uplift, and laugh with one another.
Ok, so what concerns do you have about the biggest difference of allвwhen your child brings home a potential mate of a completely different gender. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. But can't he send me a text just once a day or every few days to let me know he's thinking of me. Especially if they're devote enough to expect you to marry in heaven, huge implications with that one. These are nice people. Can I add to this extremely old thread. Is it wrong that I feel guilty?. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you.
I can't quite put my finger on it. I admit it is sometimes depressing going to bed without him and getting up seeing him still studying but I am sure we will survive this. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. Propagandists in the media throw around the word patriarchy as if it is synonymous with anything male. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. If not watch it. Her Religion is more important than you will ever be Her Religion comes first and deep down, she will come to hate you for not accepting joining her religion. This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. There are many great and wonderful people in the church, and the real evil about the church is that it harms those great and wonderful people.