December 18, Please tell me you're not in NC, dagny. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment. This comment has been removed by the author.
I think patience and understanding is also important. Thanks for sharing your story. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment.
But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. The 3rd time, I was a crying mess, which he has never seen me do so he knew he had royally blown it. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. He is toning down his opinions and ocd ways a little, to be fair to him, I try to ignore the strong opinions, and him rearranging things.
I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. Marriage to the wrong person is extremely difficult. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values.