Many hour days and sometimes 10 days straight without a day off. She is going to be taught for the rest of her life in the church the importance of missionary work and eternal families, and Priesthood in the home. We have family prayer every day and read the scriptures occasionally. Be gentle with them and yourself. I know you got a zillion replies, and I have not read them. I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband. You are expecting him to be like your exes and you want him to be the one to chase you.
And the you've seen the CES letter. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. Little did I know that at least some of these "emergencies" were actually rendezvous with his affair partner. They will teach the boys that masturbation is evil, which will cause most boys to lie about it and feel deep shame and guilt. This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. Why prophets are awesome. I still feel enriched by the contrasts, but in the important things, we have largely come together.
Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. It's definitely not an easy life. We are at odds about this constantly. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access. We have a happy marriage. The woman's role is to grow up, marry a worthy priesthood holder, and have a lot of kids. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. This also implies, there is no reason for me to further my education or career because he would prefer I have children immediately. I expect to give up my career once he finishes his training and we start a family. Lately we haven't been talking much as he doesn't want the "scrap time" that I have left over, but instead wants quality time.
I can honestly relate to all the stories i read from your blog. More than often, these men cheat and will trade up as soon as they start making some money. Once when I saw how hurt my children had become due to his lack of interaction with them.