He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me. My family says I should leave him…. Good luck and my prayers are with you. If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. It does kick your butt!. Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. Mormonism is an all-in religion. I am getting increasingly more resentful of the times I think he can choose us instead of residency.
There are other ways. I know "Meet the Mormons" isn't what I'm looking for I went through a very similar experience earlier this year and the community was extremely helpful. Too often, I think, priesthood holders think that being overly controlling, they are simply wielding their authority in the home. Oh this is a great set of questions. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right. We married in early 30's. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. Ladies, doctor's are definitely not all they're cracked up to be. I so agree with all these points about surviving medicine. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world.
Some mormon girls are closeted freaks as someone here has already said. There are many catholic families with these three main ethnic groups within it. I'd like to reiterate, though, that sheer physical exhaustion isn't as much of a problem for me as it might be for a med student or a doctor, so he might be deserving of the benefit of doubt if he doesn't keep in touch regularly.
The thing about General Authorities and General Conference, is that they give general counsel that is meant for the general population. Basically nothing like reality. I had tears in my eyes and goosebumps while reading it. It did not go well.