I am glad that I came across your blog. Also, I'm not involved with a doctor but I am an RN and spend quite a bit of time with them. For reference we're both in our mids. She cannot get into the top echelons of heaven without being sealed to a worthy priesthood holder in the temple for time and all eternity. Wow i am dating a dr and love him so much but i wonder if love is enough. Why am I still with him. Today was his day off and not one word from him.
All the other stuffв is crap. I've been in a similar situation before. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. And her husband now is dead and she is left to wonder about their future. This always seemed terribly wrong to me.
The point to this story is that when he had any free time he wanted to spend it with me. This means no swearing, loud talking, or making offensive jokes. After dating a doctor for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm dealing with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly female colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about. I know "Meet the Mormons" isn't what I'm looking for I went through a very similar experience earlier this year and the community was extremely helpful. Im sooooo happy i've found this blog!!.
I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. I am totally okay with anything that doesn't place physical or mental demands on me. I know he loves me with all of his heart. Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. But I have no idea how much of his lack of contact is actually due to him being busy or if that's just an excuse to not commit. Basically nothing like reality. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. There is no way this will work out. You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive. So there's THAT to look forward to.