Do not put up with bad behavior at any stage of a relationship. We both love eachother and I support him as he supports me while im in school as well. Controlling Behavior in Relationships. Eternity is a long time. I'd like to reiterate, though, that sheer physical exhaustion isn't as much of a problem for me as it might be for a med student or a doctor, so he might be deserving of the benefit of doubt if he doesn't keep in touch regularly. It has hit me that this relationship is a double standard wherein since we are not married yet, he is not obligated to help me, yet he says once I'm done with my boards and match into residency, we will get married. Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. In addition to your religious leaders, there are counselors who specialize in interfaith couples.
Would I like to have him by my side. God works by small and simple means to bring about His great and eternal purposes. So, guess whatв We stopped. I work in a different industry and have worked away from home my fair share. So you made a wise decision. You will have to make sacrifice your happiness a little. It is so frustrating emotionally and physically to be your faithful wife. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I. Really have to walk in someone's shoes to understand. Life is not perfect.
Yes I am married to a doctor also after being married for 5 yrs he decided to become a trama surgeon. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. Hence, ensure that the girl or guy you want to date is above 16; although with changing times, some kids may date younger, if your love interest is not keen on going out until 16, then hold off. From reading the above posts from previous posters, please keep in mind that while it helps to read and learn from each others' experiences as we are all in the same boat -- we must also make the distinction between someone's occupation and their personality or character. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. I did in college, and knew I would play 2nd fiddle to the lifelong dream. Thank you for pointing this out. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me.
In fact, when I first met him, I had no idea he was even a full fledged doctor. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. Know there are a lot of Doctors who cheat though. It's just that on days I'm working, I can't do that. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. Many Mormons stick to a small group of friends within the church. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. To Anonymous, Your comment also left me heartbroken.