The long antisocial hours often leave me feeling lonely, and when he is home he is so tired. On the other hand lol handshe may fall into tearing guilt and leave you immediately. I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. I started dating "A" right after he graduated med school and as he started his residency. My dear faithful LDS aunt married a good non-member man. Not all of us are able to achieve that ideal but we are to strive for it.
It really can be that simple. Marry a person based on his character, not his religion. I am so grateful to have had the ability to instill in them that family comes first. You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith.
To answer your question: Even when he does, everything is on his terms. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. This can keep the relationship from getting too exclusive, and spending time with more people can give you a wider variety of things to do. We don't have many nights out and he does sleep when he can but he has a surgeon's ego and so being great in bed is a priority for him. There will always be difference between spouses. I've already approached him like a million times to ask why he has been distant with me but now I'm realising it's his work load but he doesn't want to admit it's a lot for him.
The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. I hated it so much, in fact, that I ran off to China. If we do, I will be back to share my experiences. They may need much more than casual contact with the church to see the truth in it. Well, maybe not a total disaster, that is a bit exaggerated. It is only a few marriages I have seen make it where the female is the physician in the couples we have known in my husband's thirteen year career.