If you like living on someone else's coat times, them by all means. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually. I have recently seen too much of these false promises that people use to make others feel good. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. I am a staff nurse and my boyfriend is in his last year in medicine school whos now havong rough tough junior internships. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot.
Will people have feelings about your interfaith marriage. I am struggling with keeping our worlds overlapping. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. When I talk to him about this he seems to agree that he doesn't like the person he's becoming and doesn't look forward to a career in medicine, but says he can't leave medicine. A stereotype I hope will be destroyed someday, but not today. Bottom line pardon the 'pun' is that what spoils being a Doctors wife is accentuated by female patients who try to impress via way of dress and or behaviour Lets face it - being a Doctor is something that many females find attractive My thoughts are with all Doctors wives. We also had to move several times now and will move few more times.
I have already been told I will "lose" to medicine if I put pressure on him. For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that. To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. By the time you are done, you'll have all of the basics down and will have the framework to know what to ask next without any confusion. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me.
The pressure is mounting for Mormon women to cave in to Western degeneracy, and men are at a loss for what to do about it. There is rarely minute that goes by where I am not thinking about him in some way. When we started dating, he was in his fellowship. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. Do you think that is too draining too. I can second this, as a lifelong utahn this is why I simply have a "no mormons" policy for dating. When he is doing these things, he gets really upset with me if I try to talk to him because he's busy. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. Right now she won't even watch a movie. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage.