Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices. Ultimately, it comes down to this. The date night strategy is a great idea, and we have tried it, but he is sometimes on call every other night for a month and it makes it tough the nights he's on call he likes to be home just in case and the nights he's not on call, he needs to sleep in case he's up all night the following night. You see, I am the guy, and she is the established doctor dermatologist.
Becoming a doctor is hard. What if you are sexually incompatible. As for deciding to marry someone who is not mormon, here is how I made the decision. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. Of course he invited me to come with him, but he is in the wedding, so I'll be sitting there watching him in the wedding on my 30th birthday weekend.
Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. I have days when I feel like I don't want to do this anymore, but then I go through old pictures and letters and to remind myself that we had it figured out once, and we can figure it out again. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us.
In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism. I mean lots of his friends from residency have girlfriends or wives and make it work. I knew intern year would be brutal and I hoped residency would be a little better, and it was. Look for girls in your singles ward. My mom works in the medical profession, and it was always hard when she was on call or had to work late, but she definitely works hard. Any advice from people who have gone through this would be awesome. You should also be willing to date other people. I usually mean exactly what I say. But DON'T become in need of care as a spouse. No where did I say, nor I think indicate, that I thought this wasn't a complex issue, or that this girl is a caricature.