It's very noble but still demanding. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. I also studied his advice for approaching and dating women. I realize my situation is less about marriage, and more about dating, but any advice would be greatly appreciated. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people. I knew intern year would be brutal and I hoped residency would be a little better, and it was.
Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons. If I knew any better going into this relationship I would have stopped. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. They want a man who has navigated the stormy seas of the world, who has just a little bit of history, and has overcome the degenerate worldly culture, a man who has discovered for himself where peace and happiness lie. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. Single women who are educated, regardless of religion, are also going to find similar gender imbalances among their educated peers nowadays. If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity.
She probably doesn't even realize how crazy that is. I also have an MPH degree, and am currently working and trying to support us while he's in school. They therefore have a high standard to work toward. I am an MD studying for my usmle step2. Yes, those of us in the hospital work longer and harder days than most people with 9 to 5s, but we still have off days. We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it.
At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding. You never had it. If you have children how will they be raised.