Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. And we are not bloody married yet. In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut. A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful. He would be leaving his career, something he has worked so hard for and his passion for his family. I have a 12 year old daughter from my first marriage and so we didn't move in with him until he and I had been together for 2 years.
Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. Maybe you do, too. But I ultimately leave it to him most times. You knew exactly what you signed up for when you married a doctor. The Church encourages people to be a good influence on one another, and she will probably expect you to dress well for her. It gets better towards the later part of the whole deal, but it's always going to be kind of crazy busy. But it's the away rotations for months at a time that get really hard. Plus there's a lot of things we didn't get taught growing up that are slowly coming out through the Internet. Did he get kicked out of the church for marrying you.
At least not until they're I reserve the right to refute any teaching that I see as harmful. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. Again, reiterating it, don't expect a decade's worth of time with her, but enjoy her good while you two are together. I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far. He is extremely compassionate. Is he willing to, nay, interested. There is no moral issue here.
No lie he is so very loving and caring understands me feeling,but I must say loving and dating a doctor is really hard. If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first. That deal with polygamy explained. I love my husband with my whole soul. Those will make her think. They even refrain from tea and coffee. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple. This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction. The common theme here form the complaining spouses is that few of them seem to have their own lives.