I'm so glad you mentioned some of the things that I have been suggesting to my boyfriend for some time, but he has been skeptical about. How do you feel about that. If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member.
There is rarely minute that goes by where I am not thinking about him in some way. It's simply sometimes hard to accept that while he is your number one priority, you probably never will be. There is no way this will work out. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed.
Take extra care to communicate your needs once a week- don't do it every day. I married outside the church and have no regrets. Fortunately most of my immediate family has done better. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again.
I would like to know if this is normal. A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first. Life After Mormonism Chat. He says he has put-in a lot of his life into his profession and his career is very important to him.