We can also save our errant children by our valiancy too. Of course we are talking abt kids and marriage all the time. We're generally very happy when we're together, but like everyone else, it isn't always easy to find the time between his schedule and mine. I wanted so badly to marry a guy who had recently left the church. I mostly attribute this to lack of sleep, but I also think he is treated better as a fellow -- by everyone.
If we have children, they will be OK to go to your church, but not compelled to do so, and never baptized. I have felt alone many a days when raising our 2 children while he was at work or out of town for conferences. It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. A Mormon wife will also want to bring the kids along, and that should be discussed and decided before marriage and before kids. Stick around on this sub. You have to be willing to share him with his education process. While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule.
It has been very difficult to reconcile our two expectations, hopes and dreams. In the meantime, she will probably view you as being less than a Mormon man who is a faithful priesthood holder. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. As a non-Mormon male widower Catholic contemplating marrying a devout temple recommended widow, I thank you all for the wonderful blog.
He's been in the medical field for over 16yrs and I didn't have a problem when we were dating 6yrs ago but since he proposed 2yrs ago I've been feeling very unsecured. Mormon women are more likely to date outside of the religion than men, but also very unlikely to convert to a different religion. Notify me of new comments via email. He's currently working in the ER and waiting to start his residency. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. Eventually it turned into a sour argument.